When a man and woman love each other very much, sometimes they decide that they want to be a daddy and mommy. The man and woman have a very special (and fun) evening, and nine months later, they have a new baby.
Ah, but sometimes it is not that easy....
If you are going to start down the road of trying to make a baby, here's a few things that Brent and I have learned on our journey.
-Best book in the world -
Taking Charge of Your Fertiltiy. Do not borrow or go to the library for this book - buy it for yourself. I would recommend it for any woman even if you are not thinking about pregnancy (preventing or acheiving). It is so informative on menstrual cycles and many other women's issues. This is money well, well spent.
-After a few months of trying, the addiction to pregnancy tests may occur.
Pee On A Stick.com is a great website with a lot of information on how pregnancy tests work, which are the most sensitive, and ratings on which are best. Also there are places to buy bulk pregnancy and ovulation tests online for about $1 each instead of $10 at Walgreens.
-If you are in the market for a basal thermometer, look for a thermometer that keeps a record of the last few temperatures taken. This is very nice for when you fall back asleep after temping at 5 AM. Also, if anyone finds one that is backlit, please tell me - turning on the flashlight at dawn to read the thermometer is not so easy on the eyes.
After a while, you may realize that it will not be an easy road to parenthood. It is not an easy thing to deal with infertility - it is not only emotionally draining, but costly too. Tread carefully - each decision will have to be made with total communication between you and your spouse. If both of you are not on the same page, it will be a trainwreck in your relationship. Here are some more tips if you get this far....
Just to clarify, if you have failed to concieve after one year of trying, it is considered infertility and you should see a doctor to find out what's up. If you are over 30, you should start thinking about doctors after six months of trying.
- Dudes, get tested first. It's cheaper and far easier for the guys to get their sperm levels tested first. There are many invasive and expensive tests that women will have to endure - for guys, only one. And it could be actually fun too....(okay, not going to comment too much on that)
- Consider getting a job that will cover infertility testing and therepy. It may seem a little extreme, but it will lessen the sticker shock when you get that doctor bill.
Well, I wanted to say more, but it's late and I can't think straight. In the future, I'll share part two of the Makin' Babies topic -
Immaculate Conception - How to Get a Kid Without Actually Having Sex. I'm sure you're all looking forward to it - I know we are.... (rolls eyes)
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